I had counselling…

So I am not going to lie before having counselling I thought counselling was only for people with serious life problems. Like someone that recently lost a loved one or someone with a severe mental issue. (I know very ignorant of me.. sorry). Thank God I don’t think like that any more! My church has…

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He’s not right but I love him

So we are in the month of February (January was so long). Valentine’s Day around the corner, shops filled with big red cards, heart shaped balloons and cute teddy bears. All the fuss about love got me reminiscing about all the times I thought I liked someone but I didn’t really. But there was one…

My mind is telling me no but my body… 

I am sure you have heard these lyrics before. If you haven’t it’s from the song Bump and Grind by R-Kelly. I wouldn’t encourage you to go listen to it for many reasons.  Anyways, I got asked if music can affect the way you think and ultimately make you lustful. If you are still thinking…

I NEED HELP!

I need help.... something God has been teaching me this year. I can't do everything on my own. For a long time, I have been used to trying to fix things on my own. I think it's due to a number of reasons. First, I would say it's because I am a firstborn. As a…

Mind games (continued…)

How do you get to a place of believing what God says about you? I got a slap in the face. That slap was deliverance. God brought my issues to the surface, causing me to confront my pain. God used people to deliver me from insecurity, rejection etc through prayer.  This was the catalyst to…

Mind games

It always starts with a thought. The thought ruins everything. I've been out. I’ve had a good time. In fact, I’ve had a great time. I've been with people I love, we laugh, we bust banter, make new memories share the old ones. Ahhhh fellowship. Everyone loves a lil bit of fellowship. But now. Yes, there’s…

How to forgive yourself

Recently I have written blog posts about guilt and the consequences of sin especially sexual sin. But I think it's also important to talk about forgiving yourself when it comes to sin. After dealing with guilt, it may be still hard to forgive yourself because of the shame you feel and the consequences of the…

There are consequences

Today I was reading Psalm 51 and I wanted to share what I got from it with you guys. This Psalm was written by David after he committed adultery with Bathsheba. The Psalm was David's plea to God for mercy, forgiveness and cleansing. If you have read my previous blog post you will know I wrote a…

Why did I go university?

So I have been asking God this question recently and  I think I got the answer. So let's take a trip down memory lane... So four years ago around this time, I got accepted to go Essex University. But I didn't want to go. My mind was set on Kent University. Because it was ranked higher…